Wednesday, November 11, 2015

The Watch is Over

On October 15, 2015 Damon lost the battle but won the war.  He is now at peace.  He no longer feels pain and is enjoying the rest of his eternity with all the friends and family that went before him.

I miss him.  We all miss him. 

I am forever grateful that I was able to spend the last few months with him and give back some of the love and care he showed to me my whole life.  The outpouring of support from all the people that touched his life was and continues to be a comfort to our family.

I have tried to bring to a close all of the things he was trying to accomplish during the last few weeks of his life.  He was at peace with himself, his choices and his place in the world. 

One of his last wishes was to give each and every one final moment together.  A memory of your friendship to help each of you understand how much you meant to him and to give you something to hold onto when he was gone.  He was able to do that with many, many people.  Unfortunately, time and circumstance didn’t allow for him to complete that task.

On behalf of my wonderful brother know that he cherished every moment he had with you.  Each person that touched his life left a lasting impression.  He was humbled and honored to have been a part of your life.  Hold on to that special memory of him and know that it meant the world that you shared yourself with him.

He was and continues to be my big brother.  He bravely stepped forward to lead the way.  In our family he happily went first, testing the waters for the rest of us.  He made a lot of mistakes and then helped others to avoid the same pitfalls.  He charged headlong into life with enthusiasm and determination.  He left a wake so wide and so deep that we will forever feel the ripples.  Because of the love and acceptance he showed, I cannot even feel anger at his passing.  Just sadness that such a bright soul had to leave so soon.

On behalf of our family, thank you all for being a part of his life.  Thank you for the outpouring of love and support.  Thank you for showing us just how much of an impact he had on the world.

We are bereft, but because of his grace we will carry on. 

Angelica Chalmers, Damon’s little sister.

One last request:
If you are reading this, please take a few moments to share some thoughts or memories of my brother.  If you have pictures sharing them would be wonderful.  I plan to put together a bound copy of his blog along with memories, pictures and stories.  It will be distributed among the family and available to anyone else that might like a copy.  You can post directly to his blog as a comment on this post, or email directly to me at angchalmers@gmail.com.  Thank you.

From front to back: Damon Brewer, Angelica Chalmers, Milly Brewer, Alex Brewer, April Brewer, & James Brewer
Not Pictured(They were taking the photos) Terah Clark and Patrick Clark 

Damon having fun at the Walking Dead Tour in Georgia.

“Every day, think as you wake up, today I am fortunate to be alive, I have a precious human life, I am not going to waste it. I am going to use all my energies to develop myself, to expand my heart out to others; to achieve enlightenment for the benefit of all beings. I am going to have kind thoughts towards others, I am not going to get angry or think badly about others. I am going to benefit others as much as I can.” - Dalai Lama